Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Personal Application of the Psychological and Spiritual Aspects of Healing

1.    Introduction:
            Why is it important for health and wellness professionals to develop psychologically, spiritually and physically? What areas do you need to develop to achieve the goals you have for yourself?
·         Developing psychologically, spiritually, and physically is important because it allows health and wellness professionals to practice what they preach. Developing all these areas gives them the healthiest start at being able to help others achieve this and their goals. It can be challenging to gain the trust of others and to offer positive advice if you are unable to achieve the end goal yourself.
·         Psychological development is important because it forms who you are. I have always been a person who marched to the beat of her own drum. Occasionally in life, I would attempt to fall in line with the masses. This never lasted long. I am a strong opinionated woman but have learned over the years how to listen to others and accept that my thoughts are not the only correct ones. While I had been a very easy going child, my older years definitely transformed me as I achieved levels of psychological development. I, myself, am not a health or wellness professional. However, I can say that going to a professional that can relate to what I am going through makes me have more faith in their ability to help me. We know that thinking we can get better, push farther, and get stronger:  will psychologically allow us to do just this. It is mind over matter.
·         Physical development has been a never-ending challenge for me. Since I was in middle school I have had poor health. I am sick often, to the point where school officials tried to hold me back entire years because of the amount of school I would miss. My grades were never a concern as it wasn’t my intelligence that was suffering. I attempted to be as active as I could growing up but having time to maintain that as an adult is a challenge many are faced with. I began to take this very seriously last year. I have a five year old daughter who I take care of on my own. I did not want to show her that my illness runs my life. I pushed forward to get myself healthy not just for me, but for my daughter as well. We are responsible to set examples for our children. I want hers to be a positive and healthy one. I hope to further this area of my life and continue on my path to better physical health. Currently, I run on the treadmill three times a week for two miles at a time. I would like to incorporate weights into my routine at some point to gain a more well-rounded form of health.
·         Spiritual wellness is new to me with this class. I had not given it much thought before this term. Using the practices we utilize in class will allow me to strengthen my spiritual development. I was raised in religion as a child but grew out of it as an adult. Spirituality is another matter though. I find myself focusing on meditation on a daily basis. It allows me to focus and feel grounded.
2.    Assessment:
Week 3 Assessment Review and Changes for week 9;
On a scale from one to ten, I would give the following ratings:
A.   Physical- I would state my physical wellbeing would be around 7. I rate this due to my current health, including illnesses and weight. A goal to improve this would be to maintain my current exercise plan through the year. I began this plan in the fall of 2013. I have already lost 20lbs and have been able to eliminate some medication that I was on. This will not only assist me in losing weight, but it will also perk my attitude up, increase my self-esteem, and create a healthier body in general. I would maintain my physical health at a 7. While my weight is slowly getting better, the rest of my health is at a standstill. Having a long term health issue makes it harder to make a quick fix. I will continue my treatments and do my best to maintain my health to the best of my ability. Exercise will remain a focal point and I hope to expand my current exercise plan to include weights and abs.
B.   Spiritual- I would place my spiritual wellbeing around a 6. I place it low because I often forget to take time to clear my mind and relax. Becoming one my mind will allow the other areas to increase in rating as well. A goal that could improve this number would be to set aside a certain amount of time and practice meditation on a daily basis. It would be optimal to do this in the morning before I start my day so that it can begin on the best note possible. My spiritual health has improved with the guidance in this class. I would currently rate it at an 8. I have begun to practice meditation daily for the most part. This allows me to clear my mind of the stress and negative thoughts. While I don’t always have time in the mornings to meditate, I have found great benefit from meditation in the evenings after the work day is over. It is far too easy to bring the stresses of work home with you.
C.   Psychological- I would also give this a rating of 6. The reason for this is the issue I have managing my stress. It is easy to feel as though the rating is higher when there are no stressful events in my life. Unfortunately, once these do occur, I have a hard time preventing them from taking over my mind. A goal to assist in this would be to practice thinking positively and apply the saying, “mind over matter”. If I want to see the positive side of things I will, it just takes practice. Physical exercise tends to alleviate the stress, but it does not actually eliminate the source of the stress. Psychologically, I would increase my rating to an 8 as well. This class has allowed me to make major strides in handling and eliminating my stress. I have learned how to let the stress roll off of me so that I am not holding on to it and allowing it to affect the rest of my life. Taking my negative thoughts and turning them into positive ones is something that I have really used a lot. I even began suggesting it to others.

3.    Goal Development:
·         I plan to expand my exercise routine in order to create a better physical health.
·         I would like to try and meditate every day, if not more than once a day.
·         Practicing stress eliminating techniques will allow me to grow psychologically as it removes the power of negative thought.
4.    Practices for personal health:
What strategies can you implement to foster growth in each of the following domains; Physical, Psychological, and Spiritual. Provide at least two examples of exercises or practices in each domain. Explain how you will implement each example.
·         Physical:
o   Running- I will continue to run at least three times a week and slowly attempt to increase my distance past two miles.
o   Weights- I will begin to incorporate weights into my exercise routine. I will begin with eight pounds and progress as I can.
·         Psychological:
o   Running- I look forward to continuing my running. It allows me to clear my head and release the stress.
o   Meditation- I hope to continue my meditation at least once a day. A future goal would be to turn this into twice a day so that I can do this both morning and night.
·         Spiritual:
o   Meditation- Sorting through different meditations to find a few that will be most beneficial to me is a goal I have. I would like to grow spiritually so that I can have a healthy mind.
o   Yoga- Performing yoga will allow me to connect all the parts of integral healing. After yoga, one can feel as though they are floating. Yoga releases negative energy and allows you to feel at peace.
  1. Commitment:
How will you assess your progress or lack of progress in the next six months? What strategies can you use to assist in maintaining your long-term practices for health and wellness?
·         I currently have a dry erase board that I can use to create a chart. This chart can track my performance for each of my goals.

·         I also believe in the use of rewards for myself. I do want to be healthy. I also have a strong addiction to coffee. While I have my own Keurig, I do love going to the coffee shop. Setting up a rewards system, specifically with my physical health goals, will encourage me to push forward and be successful.

Thursday, January 30, 2014

Unit 8 Review

My days usually start around 7am when my daughter wakes me up. I have attempted to start my mornings with the subtle mind exercise. I have really enjoyed this exercise and find it to be quite beneficial. I feel as though it lets me pull myself together and to focus on what I have in front of me for the day, usually school and work.

At night before bed, I run on my treadmill which gets my heart pumping. Then I follow this with a shower and the loving kindness exercise. I like this one because between exercising and releasing all of my negative feelings, it becomes much easier to sleep at night. I feel calm, relaxed, and at peace. It is a great way to end my day. I have had issues with sleep since I was a teen; meditation has been an amazing tool in lessening/eliminating this issue. 

I would like to continue with my meditation exercises and I work on my physical and mental health. They are equally important with the end result that I hope to achieve. Continuing these exercises will keep me where I want to be. The exercises allow me to take my health to an area I did not even know was possible before this class.

Tuesday, January 28, 2014

Meeting Aesclepius

     Meeting Aesclepius was a visualization exercise. I visualized my grandfather who passed away 4 years ago. He was both incredibly wise and kind. We were in his house, where many deep conversations have taken place in the past. As we sat across from each other,  I visualized the light beams coming from him as I absorbed his knowledge and love. Not only did I feel stronger and healthier after this exercise, I felt an amazing amount of peace. A closeness to my grandfather was possible that I had not experienced in years. It was profound.
     The meditation exercises in this class have really allowed me to feel at peace as I have grown spiritually. I hope to continue to repeat these exercises in order to strengthen my mind and heart. I would also like to find additional exercises to supplement where needed.
     "One cannot lead another where one has not gone himself," is a wonderful saying to remember. It reminds me of the golden rule that we are taught as children, "Treat others as you want to be treated." Both show us that to achieve what we want in life, the change needs to start within us. How can you expect to better others if you aren't capable of implementing this change in your own life? As a health and wellness professional, you need to be able to have your own real life experience to draw on in order to guide others.


Tuesday, January 21, 2014

Unit 6 Assessment

       1. Practice the universal Loving Kindness (meditation) exercise on p. 93.

      Universal Loving Kindness is an exercise that can be practiced by anyone. This exercise made me feel more connected to people that I know. I no longer felt like I was alone in my effort to make a difference in the lives of others. It left me feeling hopeful that we can make a difference and help each other through life.

2.        2. Complete the Integral Assessment discussed in chapter 11 (p.115). Describe the exercise and assessment process. What did you discover about yourself? What area have you chosen to be a focus of growth and development? Why? What are some specific exercises or activities that you can implement to foster greater wellness in this area?

To complete the Integral Assessment, we have to look at the four parts of integral health to determine where the work needs to be done. Using the meditation exercise assisted with gaining awareness.

I decided to look at the biological and psychospiritual aspects of my life. Biological covers my physical health. I have mentioned my efforts at weight loss. Creating a goal, implementing exercise, and watching my caloric and nutritional intake, play a part in my plan. Due to health issues, following through with this is more important than ever. Psychospiritually, I’ve noticed how I respond to the world around me. I tend to prevent myself from achieving goals from time to time. Having the ability to listen to my still self in order to act from a place of loving kindness lets me make the best choices for my true self. This prevents my ego self from trying to get its way.


In order to further develop my life in these areas, I will continue to work with my meditation exercises. I could benefit from continuing my exercise program and possibly extend it as well to include some weight work. My routine includes taking time to walk which allows me to clear my mind. Enjoying my routine will make it seem less like work and more like entertainment.

Sunday, January 12, 2014

Subtle mind exercise

1.          Compare and contrast the Loving Kindness exercise and the Subtle mind exercise. Explain your experience including the benefits, frustrations etc.
The subtle mind exercise was wonderful. It reminded me of the type of exercise I use in meditation. The exercise lets me feel like I am finally able to slow my mind down and not worry about everything I still need to do for the day. Relaxing for the exercise was not as quick as I would have liked, but the end result was relaxing. I was able to stay on my focal point and I felt at ease with the steady rhythm of breathing.
Differences between the subtle mind exercise and the loving kindness exercise were apparent to me. The loving kindness exercise can be challenging depending on the events in your life. Even though I believe this to be an extremely important exercise, it did not come as easy as the subtle mind exercise did.

2.          Discuss the connection of the spiritual wellness to mental and physical wellness. Explain how the connection is manifested in your personal life.

My family is not overly active or athletic. Even my three brothers were not in sports. In high school, I was the only in my family to take on sports and attempt to be athletic or physically active. However, at some point, illness prevented me from this as well. I tore cartalidge in my knees, dislocated my shoulder, and had a horrible immune system. My health issues continued until just recently. About a year ago, I decided that I was not going to let my health issues rule my life. I committed myself to getting healthier. I began walking, running, and eating healthier. As a result, I was able to go off certain medications that I had been on for years. Through this dedication to being healthier, I was able to grow mentally. I have always had issues sleeping. Most nights it seems like there are so many thoughts going through my head that I am unable to just “shut it off”. Exercising allowed me to relax and take myself to a peaceful place. I began doing a significant amount of my activity at night. Once I got to that place of relaxation, I was able to sleep. We all know the many benefits our bodies receive from the proper amount of sleep. Once I recognized how my exercise was affecting my body, it became less of a task. 

Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Loving-kindness and mental workouts

  1.  Once again, I enjoyed this exercise. This exercise made me think of my family. While certain people in my family have caused significant stress and worry, the rest of my family has been a rock. They are always willing to help me out in a jam, support my decisions, and love me unconditionally. I’ve always thought our family shows us how to love. Growing up, I was showered in love. To this day, it has been my goal to be as kind, selfless, and loving as they were for me. In order to do this, the love has to start within. I focused on myself. I could feel the love radiating through me. Sending that love to others is an amazing thing. There are so many people in my family who could use it right now. My grandma has been in and out of the hospital all week with strokes and my kid brother got himself into trouble this afternoon and is sitting in jail. I know he is beating himself up over what happened far worse than anything we could say to him. It is a challenging exercise because it requires you to bring in all the pain of those you love and care about. That can be a mountain to take on. But sending it back out as love is a positive experience.
  2. "Mental workout” is a concept that is described in two phases by Dacher. First is the loving-kindness exercise and the second is the subtle mind exercises. Working with the first exercise is to move past our self -centered thoughts so that we can grow in a psychospiritual manner. Dacher says that loving-kindness will attract loving-kindness. Next, we are to focus on subtle mind. Finding a deeper level of consciousness allows us to eliminate the mess in our minds. Research has shown that mental Olympians, those who have mastered the techniques, actually have an elevated level of gamma wave activity. It shows a mental fortitude that isn’t exposed to mind fluctuations or stress and expansions of health and healing capabilities. Implementing these workouts can be done through practicing the loving-kindness exercise and then working on the subtle mind activities when I am ready. If I can practice these exercises daily, I should be able to benefit from them.

Thursday, January 2, 2014

Physical, Spiritual, and Psychological

On a scale from one to ten, I would give the following ratings:
A.   Physical- I would state my physical wellbeing would be around 7. I rate this due to my current health, including illnesses and weight. A goal to improve this would be to maintain my current exercise plan through the year. I began this plan in the fall of 2013. I have already lost 20lbs and have been able to eliminate some medication that I was on. This will not only assist me in losing weight, but it will also perk my attitude up, increase my self-esteem, and create a healthier body in general.
B.   Spiritual- I would place my spiritual wellbeing around a 6. I place it low because I often forget to take time to clear my mind and relax. Becoming one my mind will allow the other areas to increase in rating as well. A goal that could improve this number would be to set aside a certain amount of time and practice meditation on a daily basis. It would be optimal to do this in the morning before I start my day so that it can begin on the best note possible.
C.   Psychological- I would also give this a rating of 6. The reason for this is the issue I have managing my stress. It is easy to feel as though the rating is higher when there are no stressful events in my life. Unfortunately, once these do occur, I have a hard time preventing them from taking over my mind. A goal to assist in this would be to practice thinking positively and apply the saying, “mind over matter”. If I want to see the positive side of things I will, it just takes practice. Physical exercise tends to alleviate the stress, but it does not actually eliminate the source of the stress.

I, once again, enjoyed this exercise. The affirmations that we had to think about when we transitioned from one color to the next were interesting. When the exercise was finished, I felt very connected and focused. This was wonderful since I had to work on my assignment for the class next. It allowed me to apply myself without as much distraction.